Sex Is... (1993)

Genre : Documentary

Runtime : 1H 22M

Director : Marc Huestis

Synopsis

Marc Huestis edits interviews with 15 men, including himself, around a set of topics starting with "what is sex?" The men are gay, living in or near San Francisco. They talk about their first sexual experiences, the gay scene in San Francisco in the late 1970s, the pall cast by AIDS, the safe-sex movement, getting into serious relationships, the illness and death of partners, pornography, S/M and pain, race and stereotypes, personal fantasies, and bliss. Huestis has a thesis, that sex is going to be with us, so how best do we embrace it? His 15 subjects, archival footage, clips from porn films, and close-up looks at men loving men flesh out various answers.

Actors

Larry Brinkin
Larry Brinkin
Himself
Danny Castellow
Danny Castellow
Himself
Alex Chee
Alex Chee
Himself
Wayne Corbitt
Wayne Corbitt
Himself
Jim Glyer
Jim Glyer
Himself
Miguel Gutiérrez
Miguel Gutiérrez
Himself
Robert Hawk
Robert Hawk
Himself
Marc Huestis
Marc Huestis
Himself
Gerard Koskovich
Gerard Koskovich
Himself
Bambi Lake
Bambi Lake
Himself
R. Wood Massi
R. Wood Massi
Himself
David Perry
David Perry
Himself
Brad Philips
Brad Philips
Himself
Madame X
Madame X
Himself
Jeff Rosenstock
Jeff Rosenstock
Himself

Crews

Marc Huestis
Marc Huestis
Director
Fawn Yacker
Fawn Yacker
Cinematography
Hrafnhildur Gunnarsdóttir
Hrafnhildur Gunnarsdóttir
Editor
Marc Huestis
Marc Huestis
Editor
Lara Mac
Lara Mac
Editor

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